so you can tell someone how they should feel?
I’m going to completely disagree with you on that one.
I think there are reasonable boundaries that most people recognise when someone or something has veered into racist territory. Putting a jumper saying monkey on a black child and telling someone “oh you shouldn’t feel upset by that” if they do seems a bit strange to me.
I will accept that there is a PC brigade where they have no personal feelings towards a saying necessarily but view it as being offended for someone elses sake that I don’t agree with